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“The Key To Success With Women Is Understanding The Secret Language I Call “Sexual Communication”... —An Important Discovery I Made Here are a few examples of what I found: "If a woman plays with her hair while she's talking to you, she's signaling that she's interested." "If a woman sways her hips while she's walking, it means that she's signaling sexual availability." "If a woman makes and keeps eye contact with you three times in a row, it means that she wants you to approach her and start a conversation." "When a woman has a problem, she just wants a man to listen, not to try to fix it." "If a woman gets upset with something or doesn't like something you've done, you should say “I'm Sorry.” That's how to fix it." "Women like honest, sensitive men who can communicate their feelings." When I just "listened" to women's problems, they became "friends" and said things like "I really don't want to mess up our friendship, so let's just keep this as friends". When I said "I'm sorry" to women, they looked at me as if to say "You should be." When I was "honest" and "sensitive" and told women how I "felt" about them, they disappeared, and it seemed as if this was the WORST thing I could have done. Learning the natural way” I went out and started making friends with guys who were "naturally" good with women. Instead of listening to what the "experts" CLAIMED was the right thing to do, I started actually watching with my own two eyes. I went out and watched, listened, and took careful notes… as I personally observed some very successful guys approaching women, getting phone numbers, and in many cases KISSING, MAKING OUT WITH, and even TAKING HOME women they had just met. And what I saw CONFUSED THE HELL out of me. These guys were do things like making fun of women they didn't know, behaving like arrogant jerks, and in some cases being almost abusive. I just couldn't believe that these behaviors had anything to do with their success. I discounted all of it, and chalked it up to something else. Maybe these guys were really "attractive" or good-looking to women. Maybe they had some other advantage I didn't know about. Or maybe they were so persistent that they overcame these "mistakes" they were making. In fact, it took me several MONTHS of thinking about what was happening before the light bulb came on in my head, and I realized that what I was learning from the so-called "experts" was NOT what actually worked. Duh! One of my friends who was (and still is) particularly good with women and making them feel ATTRACTION for him once tried to explain what he was doing for me. He said "I take an attitude with women that is a combination of being arrogant while at the same time being funny… and women love it… they eat it up." Sometimes he used the word "cocky" to describe his communication and behavior with women. He told me this same thing over the next few months. Every time he said it, I became confused. I just couldn't imagine how being "cocky & funny" could possibly be the thing that made women like him. It made no sense to me, and I always discounted that particular thing, and looked for OTHER things he was doing that were probably the REAL reasons he was successful. Well, after watching him interact with women on many occasions, and making friends with other guys who were really good with women, I started to realize something VERY profound. I realized that when THESE guys started conversations with women, the women they were talking to were talking to them in a way that was very DIFFERENT from the way they were talking to other guys. One night I went out with a different friend, and we met up with two beautiful girls. From the INSTANT the conversation started, they were happy and animated when talking to him. But every time I got into the conversation, they just looked at me with a bored stare. It was bizarre. Here I was with a guy friend and two women, and it was like they were changing IDENTITY when talking to my friend. For some damn unexplainable reason, he was having a MAGICAL effect on them. We all decided to go to the dance floor of the club where we met. The girl he was dancing with was smiling, flirting, and dancing sexy with him, and her friend was dancing with me in a way that said "I wish I wasn't even here." Of course, when my friend would look at the girl I was dancing with, or reach over and touch her, she'd become happy and excited again. The IRONIC part of this story is that my friend loves to TEASE women, bust their balls, and make fun of them to the EXTREME. He is about as far from a "nice guy" as they get. I, on the other hand, was VERY "nice" and polite. A perfect gentleman, really. As you can probably tell, this moment had a big impact on me. Here I was being the model of a nice, respectful guy… and my friend was being an arrogant bastard… and the women loved HIM. Let me ask you… have you ever had something like this happen? Have you ever had a woman act "coldly" to you, and then turn around and hang all over another guy? It sucks, doesn't it? And the worst part is not understanding WHY it's happening… and feeling like there's nothing you can DO about it. My Big Realization... Shortly after that, I had the "Ah Ha!" moment that I mentioned earlier. It struck me in a "blinding flash of the obvious" that MAYBE WOMEN INTERPRETED THE WAY MY FRIENDS WERE ACTING IN A DIFFERENT WAY THAN I WAS. In other words, I realized that maybe there was some sort of "code language" being used. And because I didn't know it, I couldn't understand it. Have you ever seen one of those code books that has a paragraph of "normal sentences", but if you take every third letter of each word it spelled out an entirely different message? And if you didn't know that there was a "code", you'd never see the other message? Well, that was the big realization for me. Shortly after having this insight, I went out with my other friend - the first one I told you about who tried to explain his attitude with women to me. We actually went out to a topless club on this particular night (Shhhhh). On the way, I was having him explain his "method" to me again. But THIS time I was listening to EXACTLY what he was saying, and treating the conversation like I was trying to learn a new "code." Well, we walked into the club, and within about an hour I had a girl who would not get off my lap, and who gave me her phone number right on the spot (and later went out with me several times). Keep in mind, this was a topless club, and I had not "purchased" any dances from this girl or given her any money. What REALLY "tripped me out" about this was the way I was BEHAVING when I was in the club talking to her. I was doing and saying things to her that I NEVER would have said or done before. I was actually behaving in a way that I had previously assumed could NEVER be the way to attract women. And yet it worked. I was confused and excited all at the same time. I had been difficult, stand-offish, brash, and NON-complimentary (translation: anything but "nice")… and yet she liked me enough to give me her real name and phone number on the spot. Well, over the next couple of years I was able to put the entire "puzzle" together. I have to say, it was like trying to put a huge puzzle together in a dimly lit room, without knowing what the picture on the cover looked like… but I did it. And here are some of the amazing things I figured out:
It has taken me several YEARS of careful study, testing,
refining, interviewing, etc. to figure this language of Sexual
Communication out… and to figure out how to explain it in plain,
everyday language. It is VERY unlikely that most guys will ever
figure it out by accident… and most men will go to their graves
still wondering what the secret to success with women is.
Now, let me ask you a few questions…
What if you knew how to start conversations with women in a
way that made them INSTANTLY respond to you with ELECTRICITY? In
other words, what if you could SPARK conversations with women in a
way that made them respond to YOU by flirting, smiling, and becoming
attracted?
How would your life be different if you understood the way to MAGNETICALLY attract women? Instead of tricking them or trying to "buy" their affections with food, gifts, and compliments (which never works that well anyway), what if you were a guy that women wanted to be around just because your PERSONALITY attracted them? Have you always wondered what that "magic ingredient" was that made women warm up to some guys, but not others? Would you love to have a behind-the-scenes look into how it works? Here’s How To Learn And Master “Sexual Communication”
*UPDATE: Get
The New It's been over 2 years now since I first released my Sexual Communication Program. It's been VERY exciting to see that hundreds of other guys have been able to achieve the same level of success with women that I had achieved... simply by using the techniques and strategies inside. Since then I've stumbled across several brand new breakthrough strategies and ideas that may be even more powerful than those I shared in the original program... and after seeing so many men get such great results with the "old stuff", I decided that I wanted to re-do this program and make it EVEN BETTER... I decided to re-do everything from the ground up... shoot the program in front of a live audience... and bring in some of the world's best at attracting women to share their own unique insights into this fascinating world... a world that most men never even know exists. I've spent the last few months creating the BRAND NEW, "Sexual Communication - 2nd Edition"... and let me tell ya... it is OFF THE HOOK. This new program is nearly TWICE THE SIZE of the original... and it's jam-packed with DOZENS and DOZENS of brand new, "straight from trenches" strategies that you can start using immediately to increase your success with women. Here is a very small sample of the brand new breakthrough techniques you'll learn in this exciting program:
Insider Secrets Of The I was fortunate to have some of the very best in the world join me live on stage for the taping of this program... and they didn't disappoint. I'll tell you right now... if you're looking for "relationship experts" who write "cutsie" books to try to get themselves on Oprah, look elsewhere. But if you want to learn the REAL... the GENUINE... "BATTLE-TESTED" strategies of men (and one very insightful woman) who are actually out there doing it, this will be the most important information you ever get your hands on. Here's just a few of the no-holds-barred sexual motivators that were revealed in these candid appearances:
What I think you'll like best about this new program is the countless real-life, word-for-word examples and techniques that "slipped out" during the filming... 99% of which I've never shared anywhere else—or will again. Every one of them is something you can simply memorize and start using INSTANTLY to make women want you... over and over and over again. This new program makes a PERFECT companion to my Advanced Dating Techniques program, and I recommend that you use both together. I've had a few people email and ask me "What's the difference between this Sexual Communication Program and your Advanced Dating Techniques Program?" The short answer is that this is, in many ways, a more "Advanced" program than even my Advanced Series. I know, I know... but hey, the name "Advanced Advanced Series" sounded dorky. Ha! You see, once you go through my Advanced Series, you come out with a new understanding of women and dating. It literally changes your perspective. This program takes that new understanding and focuses it even further on the KEY aspect of creating that powerful emotion of ATTRACTION inside of a woman using only your COMMUNICATION. Some of the concepts in this program will be familiar to you, of course. But in this program I've gone on to share more of my "Super Advanced" ways of approaching common situations... and spent a lot of time giving detailed, step-by-step instructions on how to DO the advanced things that I teach, from being Cocky & Funny to getting physical with a woman.
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